One of the most resounding messages in the last year has been “Boston Strong.” To me, this is a message of community and solidarity. While it does not mean that we all have to be strong all the time, it means that together we are able to support each other. Together we are strong. Together. This is a lesson for all communities, including our own community here at Harvard.

“Vulnerable” is perhaps the most accurate term to describe how I felt on Boylston Street last April 15. And in the days and months that followed, it was difficult to feel vulnerable to my memories and to struggle when they inevitably surfaced. Especially at a place like Harvard, where it is so easy to get caught up in the façade of perfection, it is challenging to allow ourselves to open up to those around us. But this mistaken belief that everyone else has it all together just makes honest conversation even more critical. It took me a while, but I realized that it’s okay to not always be okay. Don’t be afraid to speak up, be honest, and listen in return.

Ultimately, the last year has shown the fundamental goodness of humanity. I have so much admiration for all the first responders, doctors, caregivers, and spectators who ran toward the injured. Their selfless actions exemplified what it means to care for each other. Most of all, the survivors themselves have displayed a remarkable persistence of spirit. People are truly incredible.

So with this anniversary, take time to reflect on what April 15, 2013, meant to you and the community you live in. Talk to your friends about their experiences. In doing so, we honor the victims, the survivors, and their families who are still recovering every day.

There are rare moments that transcend any lines that we draw between ourselves, and this is one of them. This binds us all together.

Let us not forget the lessons we learned just a short year ago. Tell your family you love them. Spend that extra time with your friends. Think about what it is you’re passionate about, and stop waiting to pursue it. Give back to your community. Cheer on the runners today. Lace up your running shoes if you feel like it. Do what makes you happy.

And most importantly, remember.

Kyle G. Krueger ’14 is an applied mathematics concentrator in Eliot House.