"We did 10 different libraries in our lastsemester," says Miller, who recommends Gutmanbecause of the plush carpeting. "Widener wasreally uncomfortable."

And sex isn't necessarily limited to thelibraries.

"Let's just say we performed a rare stunt onthe ten-meter [diving] plat form," Miller says.

Harvard students say their busy academicand extracurricular schedules can makerelationship trying.

Gozali's girlfriend, Melissa M. Kwee '94, saysit is difficult to spend ample time on herclasswork as well as with her boyfriend.

"He just feels like I prioritize things overhim," Kwee says.

Marta Weiss, who dates William Ferullo, saysthat the fact she competes in intercollegiateathletics limits the time they can spend together.

"Crew definitely gets in the way of thing,"Weiss says.

However, some students say time apart can beconstructive.

Elizabeth C. Marlantes '96 says she and herboyfriend Nathan S. Tyrrell '95 don't spend asmuch time with each other as other serious datersdo. She says giving each other space to handleother obligations is the "saving grace" of theirrelationship.

"We probably don't see each other as much asother people [in serious relationship do],"Marlantes says. "I think that's really healthy."

Corman and Oppenheimer, who are getting marriedlater this month, say they spend a lot of time ontheir own, so their relationship is not toostifling.

"Having a serious relationship like this kindof closes your options," Corman says. "But both ofus have lot of freedom."

But time constraints can be a block toembarking on a relationship in the first place.Several students say their schedules are notconducive to a long-term relationship. "Mostpeople here are too caught up in themselves andwith their work [to have a serious relationship],"says Jennifer Tye '97.

"I don't know the definition of love--I'm apre-med," adds Khoa P. Le '97.