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Alumnae Recall Experiences of First Year of Co-Education at Harvard

'Radcliffe Then and Now' Program Participants Say They Remember Not Fitting in During School, Having Less Affinity With the University

A quarter-century after their graduation, Radcliffe women find themselves resolving issues from the past and discovering their classmates once again.

"Radcliffe Class of '72: Then and Now," an informal reunion event open exclusively to women, was held Tuesday night.

Amid emotional conversations with long-lost friends and carefully organized discussion groups, many participants expressed mixed feelings both about their time as undergraduates and about the role of Radcliffe as an institution.

According to Janet L. "Lee" Aitken '72, "People were saying 'I did feel disaffected and alienated for most of my time there'...Alienation was kind of the main theme."

Some alumnae tried to sort out the sources of the persistent confusion. "What I found missing in the discussion [was that] we talked for an hour and a half and nobody mentioned Vietnam, which was the reason [for the confusion]. I'm kind of astounded," Aitken said. "I certainly don't think a group of men could have talked for that long without mentioning it."

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"In fact, I felt very connected to my friends in the anti-war movement," she said. "[The Vietnam War] affected everybody's sense of being at Harvard and what they were going to do afterwards."

Aitken cites other factors which induced mixed emotions as well.

"The rate of change we went through [was a factor]. When we were freshmen, we lived in womens' dorms, we had parietals...by the next year, we had co-ed bathrooms. People underestimated how radical that was for us," she said.

Other alumnae agreed their college years had been filled with complex emotions.

"It was sort of confusing what our role was here," said Gloria R. Melnitsky '72. "Radcliffe mostly was restrictive. It appeared everything was happening at Harvard."

Melnitsky recalled working as a waitress at the Faculty Club and said that at the time it seemed that many of her professors felt more comfortable seeing her in that setting than in class.

At times, she said it seemed as if "there was no place for women at Harvard."

"Most of us were not thinking careers," she said. "There weren't many doctors, lawyers. It was a lot of energy, and we didn't know where it was going to go."

Organizers said that the event provided a meaningful chance for classmates to reunite after long separations.

Mary A. Cronin '72, co-chair of the Harvard-Radcliffe 25th reunion said, "People are happy to be back and connecting."

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