'Coming Out' Matters in the Real WorldTo the editors:
I am continually astounded by the recurring and unmitigated attitudes of those responsible for the "Conservative 'Coming Out' Dinner." In their letter published Dec. 9 they wrote, "To the extent that the Coming Out Dinner is mocking it is meant to mock only those who feign oppression within the Harvard community, which remains tolerant to a fault."
In a sense they are right. In general, Harvard is not such a bad place to be out. Until this fall, I would have said that without hesitation. Yet, since the acts of homophobia committed in Winthrop House, Adams House and repeatedly in Mather House, I'm not so sure. But, all in all, most people in the Harvard Community are at least tolerant of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons on campus. The Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian, Transgender and Supporters' Alliance (BGLTSA) is not forbidden from meeting on campus--as similar groups are banned from schools like Boston College and Notre Dame. Throughout the Houses and dorms, there are BGLT tutors and proctors ready to address students concerns. Quite frankly, I am glad that Harvard seems to be "tolerant to a fault."
But the point that the organizers of the "Conservative 'Coming Out' Dinner" are missing--and have missed since the outcry over last year's Dinner--is that on National Coming Out Day the BGLT community is not concerned about coming out at Harvard. We are ever reminded that the world outside of Harvard Yard and outside of Cambridge is most certainly not "tolerant to a fault." Out there--in the world in which we will all be living in just a few short years--it's not a matter of worrying about a roommate moving out. It's a matter of discrimination and of violence. The names Matthew Shepherd and Rita Hester terrify us because we can never forget the kind of brutal violence that ended their lives. It's a world where there are people willing to slaughter two men in their bed because they believe it is God's will. There is no conservative minority in that world. Out there, it's the conservatives who have the power.
I want to invite the organizers of the "Conservative 'Coming Out' Dinner" to think about that world next time they consider what "coming
out" really means. I pray that if there is a conservative dinner next year its organizers use a little more common sense and sensitivity when naming it.
Jeffrey P. Morgan '02
Feb. 11, 1999
The writer is the Cornerstone coordinator at the Catholic Student Association at Saint Paul's Church.
Hicks' Gripes Unjustified
George W. Hicks ignored an important point in his editorial (Opinion, Dec. 10), namely that it is actually illegal to ride your bike on the sidewalk in Harvard Square. The woman who yelled at him was completely in the right. Maybe she didn't phrase her comment in the most polite way, but he was breaking the law.
Speaking as a Cantabridgian and as a Harvard student, I'm tired of Harvard students thinking it's okay to break the law just because they're busy.
Whether we're sneaking on to planes to get home in time for Thanksgiving or riding our bikes through dense pedestrian traffic to get to a meeting, can we at least recognize that we aren't above the law just because we're smart?
Emily F. Gregory '00
Dec. 12, 1999
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Rudeness Not from the '60s
I laughed out loud when I read George Hicks' declaration that he was a "nice person" in his latest column. It is amazing that the same person who ridiculed a homeless woman about her weight decides to devote so much space to the rudeness of others.
Hicks seems to argue that rudeness is pervasive in our society (except for him) and somehow is tied up with protests during the '60s.
I sincerely doubt, however, that the woman who yelled at Hicks for riding his bike on the sidewalk and "weaving in and out of pedestrians" was doing so because of a March on Washington flashback.
Instead, it seems as if her actions stemmed from concerns not only for her own safety, but for all of the other people on the sidewalk that Hicks was using as a moving loom. I agree with Hicks, rudeness is pervasive in our society, but I see it more as a result of narrow self-interest than of '60s style protests.
We care about how others treat us and the people that we deem important. Unfortunately, it seems as if that latter category is growing smaller. Thus Hicks can feel outraged that an Abercrombie and Fitch salesperson uses his first name while completely ignoring how rude he is to others.
Rabia Belt '01-'02
Dec. 10, 1999
The writer is the editor of the Perspective.
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