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Calling Response

Counselors Simulate a Call

Response counselors often re-enact hotline conversations to develop empathy with the victims they treat. They performed one of these role plays for The Crimson.

"Response, this is Lisa speaking."

"Hi, um, I hope you don't mind me calling. I mean, this isn't like a real crisis or anything."

"That's alright. I'm here if you feel like talking. Is something bothering you?"

"Well, sort of. It's about this guy I was liying across the hall from when I was a freshman."

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"Uh-huh. Go on."

"We were sort of friends. I haven't seen him for a while. The last time was at a party towards the end of freshman year. We'd been drinking. I guess I was really smashed or something. It was hot and crowded. He asked me to come outside and get some air. We went to his room. I don't know...I guess we had sex. I didn't really want it. I mean it wasn't violent or anything, but I didn't want it."

"Tell me what happened."

"He started coming on to me. I said no, but he just didn't listen. Nothing I said got through to him. It was like I didn't matter."

"How did you feel?"

"I was okay for a while, but it just wiped me out. I mean, my roommates made jokes about him and me being an item. It was awful."

"How are you now?"

"I saw him today--the first time since--and he stopped and talked about classes. It was like everything was fine."

"Go on."

"I practically ran away from him. He must think I'm crazy. I couldn't talk, and I ran away and started crying. I felt sick, physically sick. I feel sick now. Oh, this seems so stupid."

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