THURSDAY; Honor Thy Father (1973) A tailored-for-TV adaptation of Gay Talese's 1971 bestseller about life in a New York Italian social organization which shall remain nameless. CH. 7. 9 p.m. Color. 90 min.

FRIDAY: Peter Pan. Mary Martin returns to television for another airing of her Broadway role as James M. Barrie's Peter Pan. Musical-fantasy. CH. 4. 8 p.m. Color. 2 hrs.

The Devil's Eye. (1960) Jarl Kulle as Don Juan visits earth to seduce Bibi Andersson in Ingmar Bergman's fantasy. CH. 38. 11 p.m. B-W. 90 min.

SATURDAY: Grammy Awards. The record industry's 15th annual awards presentation telecast from the Tennessee Theater in Nashville. CH. 7. 10 p.m. Color. 90 min.

Three Strange Loves. (1950) More Bergman, this time an early experiment with flashback techniques. CH. 38. 11:15 p.m. B-W. 90 min.

SUNDAY: Columbo. Laurence Harvey as the world chess champion has a fool-proof gambit for retaining his title against his challenger: bump him off. Detective Joe Columbo (Peter Falk) oversees "The Most Dangerous Match." CH. 4. 8:30 p.m. Color. 90 min.

Stagecoach. (1939) John Ford's immortal study of character types among the passengers on an overland stage under Indian attack. Thomas Mitchell, John Wayne, Claire Trevor. CH. 38. 8:30 p.m. B-W. 1 hr. 50 min.

MONDAY: Gimme Shelter (1970) Mick Jagger, the Rolling Stones, thousands of screaming teenyboppers and the Hell's Angels get their yaya's out in this documentary of the 1969 American tour. CH. 4. 9 p.m. B-W. 2 hrs.